Fly

My husband ever said, orang baik ni selalu ditindas. Jadi kita kena jadi 'jahat' sikit supaya orang lain tak ambil kesempatan terhadap kita. Is it true?

Sometimes, kita ni terlalu considerate terhadap orang lain.
'Oh tak apa...thats the way he release his tension'
'Dia kan baru lagi di sini, tak ada kawan.Biar ja lah dia chat dengan kawan-kawan dia'
'He needs fresh air. Biar lah dia keluar'

Dan consideration kita tu akhirnya diambil kesempatan. Dipergunakan. How do you feel about it?

Bila your mind terlalu serabut dengan persoalan-persoalan yang mana bila ditanya you can guess jawapan adalah diputarbelitkan, you just need to fly.. Bukan bermakna pengecut untuk menghadapi realiti, tapi bila your mind relax, your eyes not only focus on the problem symptom, there you can think wise. Even the decision is harsh, at least you can accept the pressure from it. Tidak terus gila.

And perhaps you'll be considerate again. And being hurt again. huh??